Sunday, November 05, 2006
on why boys suck (sometimes)they say things to placate you...but they don't actually follow up. like they say they'll take you somewhere, and when the time comes they tell you they're too tired from soccer, need to sleep or need to go to sim lim square to buy new computer parts so will you go with them.
i don't understand why they have to give girls such high hopes only to crush them later, which means, more placating right?
then they tell you not to be upset, it's not something to get so worked up over...but if it's something they do over and over again isn't it a girl's right to be frustrated and annoyed? and if you get frustrated and annoyed with them for too long, they turn the tables on you and get upset with you for being upset with them.
and sometimes, after they do something to make you angry, instead of chasing after you to say they're sorry, or calling you back they aren't affected by it at all and continue doing their normal stuff. sure, sometimes girls need their space, but sometimes (depending on the situation) they want the guys to give them more of the aforementioned attention.
it is okay with me if a guy's not around all the time. in fact, i don't want him to be around all the time cuz we'd just get sick of each other faster. i mean, guys have their own stuff to do too...but what annoys me is that when the girl is not around, or busy with her own life, the guy complains. he expects her to be there for him as and when he feels like it, and when he doesn't want her around he brushes her off. as i always say, "you can't have me when you want me!" *evil laughter*
disclaimer: this is merely an observation. i am not directing this at any particular guy but just talking about guys in general.
rachel at 1:00 AM